Level 9 · Choice
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I understand who this person is today.
I can accept who this person is today.
I trust what I have observed in their behaviour.
I enjoy spending time with them.
I can be myself around them.
I am still curious about them.
The life they want fits reasonably with the life I want.
When I imagine more time together, I feel:
If I met this person today without knowing our history, would I want to see them again?
Would I voluntarily choose another 90 days of discovering this relationship?
Final choice
Your answers stay private until Your partner has submitted too. All three choices are treated neutrally — this is a decision about the next chapter, not a verdict on either of you.