Discovery XP

Progress for curiosity, honesty and observation — never for agreeing, and never for staying together.

Your discovery XP

0

+0 this week

This is your own number. It is not compared with your partner's, and there is no leaderboard.

Recent

Nothing recorded yet. XP appears as you reflect, ask and notice.

Badges

  • Still curious

    0/10

    Answer Today's Curiosity ten times.

  • Careful observer

    0/10

    Record ten daily reflections.

  • Room for difference

    0/5

    Record five moments where a difference was left standing.

  • Discovery dates

    0/4

    Complete four discovery dates.

What earns XP

  • Answered Today's Curiosity+5
  • Learned something new+10
  • Asked a genuine follow-up question+10
  • Shared something meaningful about yourself+10
  • Completed a Discovery Date+15
  • Respected a difference without trying to persuade+15
  • Asked for space clearly+15
  • Respected requested space+15
  • Noticed that an assumption about your partner was wrong+20
  • Recognised your own pattern+20
  • Your behaviour matched a stated value+20

Nothing here rewards staying together or agreeing with each other. Respecting a difference earns exactly as much as sharing something meaningful.