Level 4 · HOW I RELATE
Learn how each person works emotionally inside relationships.
Status
LockedMap your own patterns: how you reach, how you retreat, what you do when overwhelmed. You describe yourself, not your partner. Differences here are information about fit, not faults to correct.
How this level opens
Opens with participation and completed Level 3 reflections.
Practices
What you'll observe
At the end of this level you'll read back your own entries and note what changed, what repeated, and what you still can't tell yet.
Suggested pace: 10–12 days · Levels open when the discovery activities are complete, not because a calendar day passed.
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